A divorce is a landmark event in a person's life and if you've been served divorce papers, you might instinctively feel as if the other party has just declared war. But it doesn't have to be that way.

Hong Lyu, an associate attorney at Wallin & Klarich, is experienced in all aspects of family law including divorce, the division of property and child custody. In this video, he explains the impersonal nature of divorce papers and why you don't have to "freak out" when you've been served.